michelle elman

You are unattracted to the people who like you because you don’t like yourself. Unconsciously, you think “why would they like me, must be something wrong with them”
Both come down to lack of self esteem and body confidence. With the first reason, it’s almost like self-sabotage. What better way to prove to yourself you are undesirable than to attract a person who will hurt you and prove that to you? If you believe that you always get rejected, what better way to confirm that belief than to attractive an unavailable person who can never fulfil your needs.

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